www.TheDoItYourselfWorld.com

I know YouTube has become a giant cess pool.
there is one other to try.
I know you may not like the idea but please. Hear me out.
FaceBook . yes Face book. you would have more control with regards to chatting.
My idea would be to have a page set up for chatting and on line discussion. once uploaded you can link the video to Face Book..Never mind...

Now that I am back from Australia and able to answer all the posts, this forum is even better for perfect and complete control. I own and run it so nobody can mess it up on me. I can keep it clean and have spam filters and swear word filters in place.